Apr 5, 2010
How Christians Can Be Diverse, Respectful, and Redemptive: #5 Wrapping Up
Last week’s April fools joke took quite a bit of time (and by the way, it was an ebook to download and read!), so I never quite wrapped up my series on Christianity unity and diversity. Before I tackle this week’s series on what Jesus left us, I’d like to share a few closing thoughts on Christians being diverse, respectful, and redemptive.
Throughout last week I mentioned that Jesus not only imagined his followers being united in him and in the Father, but that God empowers us to do this. In addition, our diversity can be an asset, provided we are willing to respectfully understand and communicate with one another.
If we try to understand others the way we ourselves would want to be understood, we could make a lot of progress. In addition, we need to realize diversity isn’t always a threat.
In closing, I’d like to share a principle that I hope guides me in the midst of my debates and differences with fellow Christians. When entering into conversations about theology and practice, I try to remember that my goal is the building up of the other person, helping that person draw near to God, and ultimately being a redemptive presence. That doesn’t mean soft-peddling when a tough question is called for, but it has everything to do with how and why we partake in such discussions.
My guess is that a lot of times we enter into debates fearing that we may be wrong and wanting, very badly sometimes, to be proven right. Can I hear an Amen on that? I know I have invested a lot in my beliefs. They impact how I live day to day, and so I don’t like the thought of being proven wrong. Who does?
Sometimes the most redemptive approach to folks isn’t the hammer of truth. A little listening and a few perceptive questions may do a great deal more good than cutting to the chase and trying to nail someone. Attacking means the other person will become defensive and may attack in return, and then nothing positive will result. In the process of patiently walking with someone who raises hard questions, we may find ourselves in need of asking new questions and possibly even reaching some new conclusions.
Without losing our central focus on Jesus and his prayer for unity, the guiding principle for his followers in their dealings with one another is redemption. Can we help this person take steps toward Christ? Or are we seeking to justify ourselves?
How we answer these questions can make a world of difference in dealings with one another.
I appreciate the humble spirit and gentle tone in this series. The wisdom from proverbs tells us that a soft answer turns away wrath. I also liked your constant reference to Jesus’ prayer for unity. It may be the only prayer he has not yet seen answered. Perhaps he is praying it still.
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